Building Your Self-Confidence


Sometimes life beats you down and it is hard to feel good about being you. Losing a job, ending a relationship, or getting sick can lend to loss of self-confidence as well. It seems like while it takes forever for you to build up your self-confidence, one little setback can cause it to come crashing down.However, if you build a little self-confidence for yourself each day, you can find something to keep you moving and feeling good no matter what life throws at you.

Be Healthy

Start with the fuel you use to get through the day.Take time to eat healthy. Spend some time learning what your body might be lacking nutritionally and add a balance to your diet. While you are at it, make eating a special time to take a break.Turn off the TV and hide your cell phone. Spend time with your loved ones, or even if you are eating alone, set the dining room table and enjoy your meal. Along with eating healthy, a good dose of exercise can go a long way to boosting self-confidence. Take a walk or a jog. Getting involved in a sport you find interesting, even at a recreational level, can quickly build self-confidence.

Dress the Part

Take time to dress well and pay attention to yourself. Putting on a set of clothes that make you look good can vastly improve your self-image. Follow that up with a haircut or getting a manicure. There is an old adage about not dressing for the job you have, but for the job you want to have, so take that to heart. Dress for the way you want to feel.

Tie Up Loose Ends

That old pile of junk in the back of your closet isn’t going to clean itself up.It bugs you every time you look at it, so why not get a sense of accomplishment by getting rid of it? Take some time to do those little, or big, things that you’ve been putting off. Not only can this help to eliminate stress, checking items off a to-do list can provide you with a sense of accomplishment.

Spend More Time with Loved Ones

The people around you have a vast effect on your emotional well-being. If you spend time with people who care about you, it will reflect back on you. At the same time you are spending more time with those that truly care, avoid people who are destructive to you. You know that one friend that is always talking negative about everyone, or makes you feel bad about not doing enough for them? It might just be time to lose his or her number.

These are just a few tips that might help you down the road to increasing your levels of self-confidence.They might not all be for you, so start with the ones that you feel most comfortable with, then, as your self-confidence grows, expand the things you are willing to do. You might just surprise yourself.

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